![]() We have a 3 bedroom, no more room at the inn I keep saying, but my heart feels differently. Am I silly for wanting a redhaired little girl? I feel selfish for wanting that. I can see a sweet girl with the red hair as well (hubby has beautiful new penny colored hair) both my boys have blonde and brown hair. I tell myself all the time that I don't want a girl boys are better, but deep down I have to admit I would love to have a baby girl:( It just would not be fair to the two we already have to keep trying to have babies just because we want a girl. When we had our second I was afraid to hope and just told myself it was a boy, and he was:) I love my two guys, but I wish we could afford to have another baby, I would just love to try again. I wanted a baby girl from our first pregnancy, I had myself and my husband both convinced our first was a girl, it was such a letdown to find out it was a boy (I felt sooo guilty for feeling that way too) my husband even cried in the doctors office when we found out, but I would not trade my Kody for anything. I just need to hear how other people have dealt with wanting a girl-or a boy-so bad it hurts. I know I should just be thankful for 1) having children, and 2) having healthy children-please understand I realize this. However, DH has 2 grown daughters, so having a girl is not such an issue for him. He is open to trying again, but I am not sure. It sounds silly writing all this down, but has anyone else been at this place? Will I always feel this way? DH is very supportive and understanding. My head tells me to just get over it, but my heart won't. Recently the hormones in my BC made my body feel pregnant and now I am back to square one with all the feelings of sadness and loss. ![]() The past year I have been dealing with these feelings and thought I had come to terms with them. Although I dearly love my boys, I guess I have always wanted a girl. I have 3 healthy and rambuncious boys (ages 5, 3, and 1). ![]() #When parents use the xsort method of gender selection how to#I would like some advice about how to deal with a great longing for a baby girl. Hello-I am hoping someone has experienced some of the same feelings I am experiencing. ![]()
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